FiGhting For Love Advice..

During the course of a person's lifetime, one cannot always escape the grim reality of a battle. Of course I don't mean battle like a sense of war but more or less by its meaning; an encounter between two opposing forces. Whether it's an external or internal threat, battles are always fought whether we want to or not. There will always be someone or something that would oppose to what we believe in, what we feel and what we hold dear. There will always be something that will hinder us from winning a certain battle during the course of our lives.

Most of the times, aside from the usual heartaches that we feel when we're in love, we are also in danger of fighting for that particular love. Whether it's another person, or our beliefs, or just something from our past, fighting is inevitable. I don't mean of course that fighting between the lovers but the external threats that surround both sides. Most of the times, families tend to come between two lovers (Romeo and Juliet much?) and often times, past lovers come back with desperation or vengeance to claim what was or should be rightfully theirs. Sometimes, beliefs can also come between the two lovers and there are just some technicalities that may seem random but are potential reasons why something will always hinder two people from loving.

Yet, for some reason, when the battle becomes a one-sided battle, more often than not, one or the other will give up. Whether it's the pain of seeing the other get hurt or just tired from fighting for something that won't be theirs, giving up may sound the rational thing to do. But from here on in, how can you assure yourself that what you did in the past will definitely not happen again? If you gave up on someone you love, how can you be so sure that you won't do it again the next time you fall in love? When love is true, when love is pure, despite all adversities, pain is never a reason to let go or give up. If you truly love a person, then you should give it your all to fight for that somebody, to make sure that he/she will never be gone or taken away from you. Often times, we find ourselves asking the question "if he/she really worth fighting for? Is our love worth fighting for?". The answer to those questions will have different answers coming from different perspectives. But the one thing that will bind all answers despite their difference is how much you love that person. Fighting for love is a test of your character, to see how far you are willing to go for that someone, to see how much pain you're willing to endure for him/her. "Strength through adversity" does not apply directly to wars and warriors but also applies to a relationship. However, it takes two of you to fight for your relationship and for your love, keeping each other strong and holding on through tough times.

In my personal perspective, I'll always fight for the one that I love, no matter the adversity. And the answer that I'm about to give to this question "if she really worth fighting for? Is our love worth fighting for?" is "YES". Come what may, love is always worth fighting for, whether it's a simple form of love for friends to a more deeper and profound feeling of love towards your special someone. .

My Wish...

Kung sakaling may magmamahal sa akin,
gusto ko mahalin nya ako ng walang dahilan,
nang sa ganung paraan,
wala ring dahilan para ako'y kanyang iwanan..

Kung pagbibigyan ako ng isang pagkakataon
isang kahilingan para sa buong magdamag
pipiliin kong bumalik sa aking kahapon
at kung maari sana ay kasama ka...

Nais kitang isama pabalik sa nakaraan ko
para maipakilala ko sayo ang sarili ko
ang simpleng pamumuhay na meron ako
at ang dalisay na pagmamahal
na minsan ay nanirahan sa puso ko.

Isang saglit lang
para maipadama ko sayo
na bago nawasak itong puso ko
minsan sa buhay ko ay nagmahal din ako ng totoo...
isang gabi lang
para maunawaan mo,
na kaya ako nasaktan ng ganito,
ay dahil pinili kong maging maligaya
ang taong pinakamamahal ko...

Maikling panahon lang
makasama ko ang taong minamahal ko,
kahit sandali lang
hindi ako matatakot yumakap sayo,
at sana sa isang saglit man lang
magawa mong mahalin ako,
gaya ng pagmamahal ko sayo...

Isang hiram na pagkakataon,
para makita mo ang lungkot sa mga mata ko...
Isang maikling sandali sa tabi mo,
para maipadama ko sayo
kung gaano ka kahalaga sa buhay ko...

Sa huling sandali ng gabing yun,
Nawa'y mabigkas ko sayo
ang bawat salitang matagal ko ring pinag-aaralan,
mga liham na nakakubli sa naguguluhan kong isipan,
at mga hikbi na kay tagal kung itinago sa aking kalooban..

At sa huling yugto nitong hiram na sandali,
magawa ko sanang iiyak
ang lahat ng sakit na bumabalot sa puso ko
para bukas sakaling magising man ako,
ay wala ng "IKAW" at LUHAng hahadlang pa
sa panibagong buhay na sisimulan ko...

Source:
thanks for wyteheart for this blog..

My Saddest ChristMas Ever...

christmas,. another season of joy and happiness.. but for me, its juz another season that reminds me of being alone., all alone coz of this damn sadness., if i could only hold the hands of time, and let it juz stop even for a while... just for a while..


Im here, all alone,..looking at the stars as my skin feels the cold breeze that the Yuletide season brings., im imagining that you were beside me. embracing me tightly, giving me a warm feeling and whispering sweet words to my ears.,. how i wish that i could see you smiling this christmas, even you're with her.. this is one of my saddest Christmas EVER.. i wish there would be someone to spend this lonely christmas with me.. someone who can make a curve from the straight line on my lips.. someone who can wipe every single tear that will fall down from this eyes.. this christmas, i'm hoping that your happy., even though im pretty sure that she's the only girl who can make you smile this christmas.., if god would grant me a wish., i would wish to forget about you even just for this coming christmas day,, so i can probably enjoy it without any fear,, without any ache or pain inside my broken heart..even if my heart and mind don't want your memories to be thrown away inside their spaces.. this feeling really hurts..


i think it's unfair if i'll greet you on this way.., but still


"MERRY CHRISTMAS HOney..='("

LOVE TEST

***this is just a short quiz na nkita q sa net..mejo sumapul ,ung iba nde.,hehehe! try neo answer to know ur personality towards love.,ENJOY! -majho

QUESTIONS:

1. You are walking to your boy/girlfriend's house. Mayroong 2 roads pra mkarating sa haus nila. One is a straight path to take you there quickly, but very boring. The other is significantly longer but is full of wonderful sights and interesting things. Which one do you take to get to your significant other's house, SHORT OR LONG ?
OPTIONS: short or long road


2. On the way you see two rose bushes. One is full of red roses, the other full of white. You decide to pick 20 roses for your boy/girlfriend of any one color or two color combination. What number of white and/or red do you pick?
HOW MANY WHITE ROSES & HOW MANY RED ROSES WILL U PICK?
OPTIONS: x no.of white roses : x no. of red roses


3. You finally get to their house. His/Her MaMa answers the door. Ippatawag mo ba xa sa Mama nya or ddiretso ka na sa kwarto nea?
OPTIONS:The family member gets him/her OR Get him/her myself

4. You go up to your boy/girlfriend's room, but nobody is there. You decide to leave the roses. San mo iiwan ang roses n dala mo, sa window or sa bed nea?
OPTIONS: window or bed

5. Later, it's time for bed. Na2log keo sa mgkabilang room. In the morning when it's time to wake up, you go into his/her room and check on him/her. Pagpasok mo sa kwarto nea,gusto mo ba xang mkitang 2log or
OPTIONS: Awake or Asleep

6. Now pauwi ka na ule. Do you take the short, plain or more interesting road?
OPTIONS: Short or long road?






RESULTS:

1. The road represents your attitude towards falling in love.
If ur answer is:
SHORT ROAD: madali kang mainlove.
LONG ROAD: You take your time and do not fall in love easily.

2. The number of red roses represents how much you give in a relationship, while the number of white represents what you expect in return.
If ur answer is:
Example: 10 red & 10 white
You give 50% and expect 50% in return.

3.This question represents kung paano mo ihandle ang problema mo sa love.
If ur answer is:
U ASKED HER MAMA TO CALL Him/HER: mahilig mong iwasan ang problema at umaasa na msosolve ito ng kusa.
U GET HIM/HER BY URSELF:You are a more direct person and like to work out problems immediately.

4.This represents your attitude towards his/her personality.
If ur answer is:
AWAKE: you expect the person to change for you.
SLEEP: you love the person the way s/he is.

5.The road to home tells how long you stay in love with someone.
SHORT: You fall out of love easily.
LONG: You will tend to stay in love for a long time.